In the attempt to get just the right shot (especially when photographing children), I often end up with what I call the “real life” shots. The sillies, the tears, the pouts. And I can’t help it—I always love them. Because as a mother, I know all too well how quickly these years go and how easily we forget some of those moments or those faces. When photographing my oldest, my six-year-old, this summer, I “forced” her out into an overgrown area where she encountered grasshoppers. And this is how she felt about it:


As cute and adorable as she is in the following pictures, they just don’t tell the story that the first two do. And while we all love cute and adorable (they are so much fun to frame and hang), photography to me is about a story and about remembering. In twenty years from now, I’ll remember the sweet little smiles (they’ll be hanging on my walls, after all), but I also want to be able to look at that picture of her fretting about bugs and remember the little whimper she did. As hard as it is for me to believe now, I think I’ll want to remember that pout (and will find it so much more adorable!). I say it all the time—a photo session shouldn’t be just about getting perfect pictures (although we hope for a few of those!), it should also be about making and capturing memories.


More “memories” from this photo shoot should be coming soon!